Speak, Connect, Quilt!

Stories in quilts. Photograph courtesy of The Quilt Gallery

The masterpieces of artists are said to be parts of themselves on canvas, or in this case - quilt. In Portraits of Perseverance, Nisha, Sulastri, Lucy and Pong created a beautiful quilt that told their individual story, yet drew the same message of hope and perseverance. 

They made quilts in times of suffering, to express the ups and downs of a life plagued by disease or to raise awareness about a certain issue (such as incest). As our Portraits of Perseverance women used quilting as an outlet of expression for their unique struggles, many people in the world use it to express their own unique troubles.

Apparently, the art of quilting has dated as far back as the days of ancient Egypt. Since those days, groups of people have gathered together, each stitching their square of cloth, and finally assembling them together to form a diverse quilt.

Some make quilts to express support in rough times, like in the case of the Quilt of Valor, which was made to honour soldiers in the United States.Quilts are also made as love offerings, for any special occasion. A baby shower gift. A wedding present. The possibilities are endless!

As traditionally, quilting is mostly done by women, it is seen as a way to connect and empower women. In a literal sense, a group of women connect with one another while working on a quilt - spending time chatting, sharing small talk and experiences. At the same time, young girls could work on the quilts with older women and learn many life lessons and homemaking skills, first-hand! Even more so for the womenfolk of small communities. It helps create a tightly-knit sisterhood bond.

Photograph courtesy of The Quilt Gallery.

In many impoverished nations, such as Nepal and Uganda, any extra income a woman can make would be of great help to her family. With several of them not having received formal education, and many not trained with job survival skills, quilting and selling the handmade quilts would not only generate a little cash, but it also can give the women a sense of responsibility and empowerment. 

Quilting enables women to speak up! It gives them power to express their innermost thoughts - by quilting pictures or symbols of their feelings. (People say girls are sensitive creatures so I guess this whole "expressing feelings" thing comes easier for us than it does for men!)

On the 8th of March this year, 11 advocacy quilts were shown at the United Nations headquarters in conjunction with International Women's Day. They can shed light on world issues. They can speak up for a cause and give their support. Not just on a small scale, but on an international scale. 

Even in these modern times, many still deem quilting as a "woman's job", something done by the weaker sex.

Yes, people can say it's a woman's job. But they should take a look at how women use it to do so much, and realize women are most definitely not the weaker sex.

With the little act of quilting, women can make pretty home decors AND be empowered at the same time!


by Junmey

Watching Portraits of Perseverance

“Portraits of Perseverance” sheds light on some of the troubles four women face in their daily lives, and how they manage to cope with them. I find it amazing how the women pull through each day and still remain cheerful and committed to their responsibilities.

For Lucy, she juggles the duties of a mother and the added plight of a Lupus patient. Pong had to deal with losing her legs after giving birth over 26 years ago. As for Nisha and Sulastri, they are bombarded with the unique challenges of being transsexuals in a conservative society.

Well, there goes the saying that, "when the going gets tough, the tough gets going."

Once the POP video was completed, the post-production team watched the final draft. I realized that everyday, the women take on these challenges bravely and triumph over them.

Snippets of the documentary featured Pong moving about with difficulty, yet without complaining at all; Sulastri emphasising that "this is who" she is, regardless of what others might think or say about her. These are women of strength.

They are heroines in their own right.  



Ching Ching talking to the interns in the post-production team about the video.


“It’s a very heartwarming video, and it highlights some problems that these women go through. We are lucky enough to not have to face these problems!" Dominique said, when asked about his thoughts concerning the video. “But at the same time, it also highlights problems that all of us as people share. (The video) has a lot of life lessons (that teach us) to appreciate the things we have.”

Young ones like us could learn so much from them.

Joshua’s take on the video pretty much sums up what many of us thought of it, “It’s very touching. It’s a production that can relate to (many aspects of) one’s life.”

The documentary gives the viewer access into the daily lives of the women. 
It takes the viewer to a personal level to understand their stories.

It successfully tells those stories in the rawest and most realistic way possible.

“Considering this is eHomemakers first documentary, I think we did a really good job.” said Rhonwyn, who was part of the “Portraits of Perseverance” production team.



Some of the post-production team members watching the final POP draft.



All in all, the process of making the video has been a roller-coaster ride, just like the many journeys we embark on in life. But through that grinding process, this masterpiece of a documentary was born.

You be the judge of that!

I personally believe that this video delivers a very strong theme - that is, tough times don’t last, but TOUGH PEOPLE DO.  As Joshua said, “The women have times when they are down, and during those times, they look up." 

And I hope that every person who watches "Portraits of Perseverance" will be touched by that message.


by Junmey