Photo Courtesy of Maria Skouras, The Advocacy Project |
I remember holding on to my father’s hand tentatively as I walk into this home of a stranger – a place I’ve never been to. I know father knew the person who lives here, but I don’t know who it was.
When I
saw her, I knew in the heart of a little girl, that this woman has been through
a lot, but I wouldn’t have guessed it, not with that beaming smile she shone
upon us as we entered.
She had no legs, and she moved around in a make-shift trolley, and it made my heart cry to see her that way. Although I know that I shouldn’t be feeling that way because she is a strong woman and strong women don’t want people to sympathize with them – instead we should be proud of her.
She had no legs, and she moved around in a make-shift trolley, and it made my heart cry to see her that way. Although I know that I shouldn’t be feeling that way because she is a strong woman and strong women don’t want people to sympathize with them – instead we should be proud of her.
Sometimes
when I think that life is too much for me, and that I can’t seem to move
forward just for a teeny-weeny problem - I think of her. How she would have
felt when the doctors amputated her legs. I’m sure her future would have looked
bleak for her, but she didn’t let that bring her down.
She
shows other women that she is the epitome of courage and strength. You don’t
have to jump off a cliff and dive into churning waters to show that you’re
fearless, nor do you need to lift weights to show your strength. You just need
to be brave to face the challenges life puts in front of you, and have the
power to rise above that, knowing that it is easy to give up but you’ve managed
to stand up tall spiritually.
Nowadays
when I feel low and on the verge of giving up, I think to myself, if she and
many others with the same problems can do it – who’s to say I can’t stand up
tall and face only small challenges. She is my role model and she is someone we
should all respect for we don’t need a man in a flowing red cape and the letter
‘S’ on his chest to be the figure of valor. All we need is to look at Jenny
Pong Seow Chin and learn from her the true value of strength and perseverance.
Photo Courtesy of Maria Skouras, The Advocacy Project |
I left
the house with Mandarin oranges in my hand – it must have been during the
Chinese New Year Celebration – thinking that when I grow up I will not let any
obstacles in my life bring me down. I will persevere and stand tall in the face
of adversity as when I look into her eyes, it told me that you can be strong if
your heart’s in the right place.